Vinciman Ponders

This reflection was prompted by a recent Zoom meeting with Compass Compact to discuss the verdict of Derek Chauvin being found guilty of the murder of George Floyd. I thought that attending a reflection of that nature was necessary because George Floyd's death represents a moment of National trauma for the USA in many ways. One of the facilitators asked us to tell a personal story about the incident and conviction, so here is my story.  My George Floyd story is not about a tragic encounter with law enforcement, but it could have been. I remember being stopped by an officer a couple of years ago for driving over the speed limit of 35 miles per hour. Disoriented by the sirens, I opened my door to correctly take my driver's license from my pocket. As I opened my door, the officer shouted over his loudspeaker that I should stay in the car; I complied. I realize that if I had not, the encounter might have ended badly for me, a black man, at 10:00 pm in a small town. Luckily, I got...

We’re often surprised when long-term religious marriages end in divorce—especially when the couple leads a church. It’s not that faith or decades of partnership make one immune to separation, but we tend to believe they might. These unions appear to be rooted in shared values, spiritual purpose, and enduring commitment. Yet, even these marriages are not impervious to the pressures of modern life. In an individualistic culture like the United States, the pursuit of personal happiness can be all-consuming. Marital strain often arises when individual fulfillment begins to eclipse shared goals. The rise of women’s empowerment—through education, workforce participation, and movements like #MeToo—has added new dimensions to the concept of marriage. While these gains are vital, they also challenge traditional marital dynamics. One wonders whether the cultural, economic, and social forces of modern America operate like quicksand, slowly pulling at the foundations of all marriages. Is the value...